My Boyfriend Ignores Me, What to Do?posted by: Gretchen
There’s nothing worse than being ignored by someone you love. The pain is really unbearable when your husband, boyfriend, wife, or girlfriend ignores you and you are clueless why it’s happening. There are so many questions in your mind that need to be answered. You have attempted to reach the person but you don’t get any text message or phone call for days. It’s definitely killing you softly. To be ignored and neglected by someone special to you is not an ordinary thing.
I know how hard it is to be in a situation like this. If you have experienced this, you can tell how throbbing it is. This post is going to tell some tips on how to deal with a boyfriend who ignores you. Some pieces of advice and things to do include the following:
- The first step that you have to take is to know the reason for his behavior. Why is he acting like that? What have you done to drive him away from you? At this point you have to evaluate yourself. Have you been into a fight lately? He is probably thinking over things or trying to figure things out. If you have done nothing that could drive him away from you, then focus your attention on him. He might be interested with someone else that’s why he has diverted his attention to that someone.
- Try to communicate with him. You can use Facebook to send him a message. If your boyfriend doesn’t call you, then be the one to call. Do anything that you can do just for you to talk. If he cares for you, he’d give you the chance to hear his explanation. But if he doesn’t care about your feelings, ask him what he wants. Ignoring you might be just a scheme to let you feel that he wants to break up with you.
- Offer him some help if he is bothered with something else. Try to understand his situation. However, if he is into something fishy and he doesn’t want to talk to you, because he hates you, leave him alone. There’s no point fighting for the relationship if he has given up on you. Move on and find another guy who deserves your love and attention. Consider dating other men until you find a new lover.
There is a reason for every action and sometimes it happens to let you realize things. Whatever realizations you do have, hope you will be on the right track.
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